Finding Purpose in the Simple Things of Life

I’ve always enjoyed trying to figure things out. Whether it’s fishing, fixing engines, or cooking, each of my hobbies challenges me differently. In every challenge, there is a sense of reward when it is completed: catching a fish, getting an engine running, or pulling my favorite meal out of the oven.

Over time, I’ve learned that these everyday skills and hobbies can be used for more than just entertainment. They show me how I can use my patience and problem-solving for the mission of Christ and for loving my neighbors well. Even in the simple things of life, there can be purpose.

The Puzzle

I’m drawn to these kinds of activities because each one presents a unique challenge. It’s similar to solving a puzzle.

When I’m fishing from my kayak on a river, there’s a lot to think about: the current, keeping the kayak straight, how to cast, and what lures to use for the fish that I want to catch. Every choice in this process matters. 

Cooking and engine repair are similar. There are a hundred different ways to go about cooking a dish or fixing an engine problem. There is no one-size-fits-all approach when it comes to these simple things of life, making problem-solving and determination essential. In the end, you get a delicious meal or a working engine! 

Slowing Down

These activities keep me curious about the world around me and keep me humble as I continue to learn. Completing these tasks effectively requires focus, patience, and perseverance. Many times, these activities cause me to slow down. They force me to be present and work with my hands, taking the time to experience what I’m doing and notice who’s around me.

This reminds me of Paul’s words in 1 Thessalonians 4:11-12, saying, “Aspire to live quietly, and to mind your own affairs, and to work with your hands, as we instructed you, so that you may walk properly before outsiders and be dependent on no one.” Paul uses clever wordplay in this section of the text. The Thessalonians were busybodies instead of being busy with things that had value, much like our world today. Living quietly means doing the opposite: working faithfully, creating value, and loving your neighbor. By doing the simple things of life, Christians refuse to be swept up by the noise of the society around them.

Ministry of Presence

In the pursuit of a slow life, I gain the gift of presence. When I slow down, I can dwell in the moment, love people with genuine interest, and take the time to love others around me. 

Thinking about Jesus’ ministry, I’m struck by how present He was. He didn’t rush from one thing to the next. He took on flesh, lived among us, worked with His hands, and knew people deeply. His conversation with the woman at the well is a beautiful example. He knew her story, and instead of being overwhelmed or judgmental of her situation, He loved her right where she was.

Everyday Skills for Missions

In missions, the same is true. I often talk about how missions require both relational and practical skills in my intercultural studies classes. The best missionaries and neighbors are the ones who can enjoy the simple things of life, connect deeply within their culture, and contribute something to the society around them. 

Fishing, fixing, and building all require seeing the big picture without losing sight of the small components that make it work. Missions are similar: You need to observe, learn, and listen about the culture, or about your neighbor, and figure out how to love them like Christ.

Finding my Purpose in God

If I could give you one piece of advice, it would be this: take time to reflect on the gifts that God has given you. Think about how you can use these gifts to honor God and love others. This was the key to finding my purpose in God. 

Work at becoming better at your skills. Not for your own achievement, but so that you can serve the people around you more effectively. These gifts slowly become a part of who you are, becoming a way to naturally connect, build relationships, and live on mission where you are.

You don’t have to achieve more to be faithful. Enjoy the simple things of life, slow down, live intentionally, and love your neighbor well. That’s enough!

Anthony Casey is Associate Professor and director of the Doctor of Intercultural Studies program at Grace College and Seminary.  He has worked with refugees and other immigrants in the U.S. and overseas for fifteen years, conducted cultural and linguistic research on four continents, and previously served as professor of anthropology at a university in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia. Dr. Casey is the author of Peoples on the Move: Community Research for Ministry and Missions (Wipf and Stock, 2020), in addition to a number of other books, chapters, and journal articles. He currently serves as Vice President for Publications and is a member of the executive board of the Evangelical Missiological Society. Dr. Casey is married to his wife Beth and has four sons.